My daughter is 18 months and I'm always telling her to be gentle, and I always discipline her when she gets to rough, then praise my dogs, sometimes cats, and I never leave her unsupervised. The things they put up with....
I gotta give Pilot major props for what he puts up with when it comes to my daughter...
My daughter has the habit of grabbing his tail and pulling on it lately, along with grabbing his back and sides; poor dog, sits/stands there looking at me with his big sad eyes.
I always discipline my daughter and praise the day lights out of Pilot.
Well, yesterday my daughter somehow got a hold, with both hands, of Pilots droopy lips/gowls and she was just pulling on them, and she did not want to let go.
He sat there, with this grief stricken look on his face and just waited patiently for me to pry her hands off. I felt so bad for him, and gave him big scratchies and treats when he was freed.
The other day she (my daughter) had Lemmy cornered between my legs and the cupboards ( I had moved her away once and hadn't notice she came back).
I felt a bump on my leg then heard Lemmy groan. I looked down and she had him by the scruff and an ear, pulling on him. He was just sitting there, looked up at me like " Mom...seriously... help" while I once again, pried my daughters hands off him.
One time while she chased him, he got cornered against my legs, and my daughter was flailing her arms at him, smacking him in the face. I was grabbing her and trying to stop her, but Lemmy had enough and growled/barked at her. I pinned him with a stern "no", He went belly up immediately. Then when I let him back up, his ears lowered, his little bob went back and forth slowly and he started licking my daughters hand gingerly. Then he proceeded to continue frapping and they were good again. Haha.
While staying with my mom, my daughter was playing with Marley; My moms bichon x spaniel and while my mom was making dinner she heard Marley whinning... my daughter had the poor thing by the eye brows and was just given' her.
I'm so greatful to have such patient animals, even our male cat puts up with a lot, I don't know if it's because we train them to not react, or if they know she's only meaning it as play and not to be mean. Or if it's because she's the one who sneaks them the good food haha.
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Comment by Amy & Rubi Rae on July 31, 2012 at 6:14pm Hang in there. That is a tough age for dog/cat tormenting. I remember thinking that surely my son would get bitten despite my best efforts. He'd try to chase the dog and hit her with sticks! Unacceptable! Now at the big boy age of 3 he can't even imagine that he acted that way!
Comment by Lemmy Winks on July 31, 2012 at 3:12pm Bev: I agree, Our daughter never goes around animals that are unfamiliar, for that exact reason.
Aronna: I also agree with you, and I am very firm with my daughter when I discipline her. I just didn't want to fill the blog with how I discipline her lol. These instances don't happen daily or weekly, but on occasion.
I am fully aware of how unpredictable even the tamest of animals can be, and we do take precaution with her and the dogs at all times.
Another reason to insist that even very young children learn to leave the pets alone is that they (the children) will encounter other animals than yours and not all animals will be so reliable.
Comment by aronna welsh on July 31, 2012 at 1:09pm I am not sure how you will take this because people are very protective of the method they use when teaching their children. I fee you need to be firm with her or she will be bitten. it sounds like these dogs are giving her the best they have but even the most loving pet will reach a limit and snap back. Recently I had a friend that put her dog down because the dog snapped at her son. I had seen this boy lay on the dog, take food from his mouth, bang him on the head with his toys, and try to pick him up by his skin. The mother would say be easy with him. Then one day the dog was a sleep on the floor and the boy jumped on his belly, The dog jumped up and snapped toward the boy then moved across the room to go back to sleep. She called her husband and they had the dog put to sleep because it was dangerous. My daughter tried to pick up our dog by his hair once I told her to stop because it hurt. She did it again so I pulled her hair and said see it hurts, she cried but she never did it again. Please find a way that works to protect your baby and your dogs.
Comment by John Wolff on July 31, 2012 at 12:35pm Pets offer opportunity to train children in respect and love. Young children, esp. strange children, are not to be trusted. When I introduce Killer and Fang to strange toddlers, I watch them -- the children -- closely.
If a child provokes a patient dog to growl, I'd think it's the kid, not the dog, who needs correcting.
Our daughter got a scratch from our cat: center of eyebrow, center of cheekbone below the eye, center of eyelid. Right smack across the eye, not quite as fast as the blink of an eye.
A St. Bernard who killed a child was found, upon autopsy, to have a popsicle stick fully inserted into its ear canal.
Comment by Jen, Yuki & Ellie on July 31, 2012 at 11:22am I should add that my kids are very respectful of the pets, haha. They both know "gentle" and treat the dogs with care. My neighbor's son, however...
Comment by Jen, Yuki & Ellie on July 31, 2012 at 11:22am I maintain that dogs are able to tell a child from an adult and give them more leeway, just as they would a puppy. However, that patience will only go so far and then it's up to how well you have trained them. Both of mine are incredibly patient with my young ones, as well, though Ellie is far less tolerant than Yuki. The kids can do just about anything to him and he won't even make a sound, he'll just move away from them and find me.
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