On February 5th 2012 my mother & London's "grammy", Shirley Jean Kyler Siegfried passed away at the age of 65 at Penn State Hershey Medical Center, Hershey PA after a lifetime of suffering rheumatoid arthritis and twelve years fighting a mRSA staph infection.  Three days prior, on February 3rd, my partner Tracy's mother Faith Wittig passed away in hospice care at the age of 68 in a nursing home in Lebanon PA after a life of mental illness.…