Hello,
Stitch and I are new to My Corgi. I wish I had known about it sooner. I found this site while looking for help for my little Stitchy. Sam's post on Mocha and Vienna came up in my search.
This is our story:
Stitch came to us 7 years ago at 3 months old, as a dog for our children, then ages 7 and 9. I have to admit, when we saw him for the first time, I knew nothing about Corgi's and thought, " How in the world is he going to keep up with the kids with those tiny, little legs?" My husband and kids fell for him instantly and said he looked like Stitch from the Disney movie 'Lilo and Stitch', which happens to be my absolute favorite. I insisted we take more time to research to find the right dog for our lifestyle and was pushing for a bigger dog to look out for the kids. Little did I know, I was about to get an education! In every search we did, Corgi was the perfect breed for us. So, with a very smug hubby & kids, we went back to the pet store to get him. He sat on my lap on the ride home.
That was the easy part.
Stitch came to live with us on a Saturday night and on Monday morning I called the referred vet for an initial check up. When I took him in, I didn't like the way he was breathing and spoke to the vet about it. He gave me some pills and said, "He'll be fine". By Tuesday morning his breathing was so bad that I rushed him back to the vet as soon as they opened. Pneumonia. BAD. He spent the next 7 days in ICU with an IV, nebulizer, pills and no contact with us. So for the first week we had him, technically...we didn't have him. I hate to think what would have happened to him if we didn't choose to bring him home. To our surprise, the pet store where we got him paid for EVERYTHING.
During his recovery, the kids were just back to school in the fall and Stitch initially needed round the clock care. We spent our days together and I took care of him. We have a home based service business, and I run the office, so I am always around to handle whatever may come up.
During our days together, I fell for him... and I fell hard. First a floppy ear bouncing in the yard, then a chubby little paw print in the mud and a rambunctious bark when he and hubby wrestled. I never saw it coming, but he stole my heart and soon we were inseparable. He has been the 'pep' around our house in the time that we've lived here. Wherever we go, he goes. Hiking, camping, picking up the kids...you name it! He's always in our Christmas card photo & our friends and family adore him...I think they come over just to see him! ;) Some even ask when our next vacation will be so they can take turns watching him! How lucky are we?
Training school was fun...he blew through it with flying colors. All except...'lay down'..he has 'short dog syndrome'..it tooks weeks upon weeks and he just wouldn't do it. One night hubby got down on the floor and told him to lay down..that was all it took! :0 Now he dive bombs onto the floor belly up to be rubbed. Just adorable!
He is our sunshine and so incredibly smart.
About three weeks ago I was folding laundry with Stitch and he squeaked. One time. It was odd. Hmmm. I took him out and threw his soccer ball, which he ran after and caught. He was panting harder than usual. Hmmm..that's odd too. Must be the humidity...but I called the vet and took him right in just to make sure. He was acting perfectly normal, had a chest xray..looked good. Swollen lymph node was aspirated & sent to the lab. The vet thought it was probably a local infection.
Hubby had a race that weekend, so we packed up the camper & off we went..Stitch was riding in his booster seat with a smile as usual. We spent the weekend at the race track & Stitch was loving all of the attention. He loves to sit in the pop-up camper on the bed and look out over the kids and keep an eye on the activities.
We had no idea that our world was about to come crashing down.
Stitch was diagnosed with Lymphosarcoma on July 23, 2012. It was a complete surprise and 'devistated' does not even begin to describe what we're feeling. I'm still in shock. When the vet called, I thought..."Ok, let's weigh our treatment options. If he has a tumor, he'll need surgery and then probably chemo or radiation...ok..let's look at this rationally...whatever he needs". I hung up the phone and started researching. It was clear that this type of cancer is not a tumor and I wasn't fully understanding or prepared for what the vet was telling me. This is bad. Very bad. I called my husband and first apologized for telling him over the phone, and told him. I am very lucky to have a wonderful guy that loves me...alot...and knows how much I love Stitch. I didn't want him to see me unravel. He would worry about me and I knew this this news would crush him too. He needed to work through his feelings and do some research before we told the kids. I knew I would be completely inconsolable and had to gather myself so we could handle this as a unit. We told each of our kids and it has been a difficult few weeks.
We met with the oncologist. She was very compassionate, but our options are not encouraging. We had to make some gut wrenching decisions and the DR wanted us to start treatment right then & there. First, we had to talk to our kids, who are now 14 & 16. Stitch is the center of our home and has a unique relationship with each of us. We couldn't make this decision without including them. We brought Stitch home. We each independently chose which option we thought would be best for Stitch and then sat on the floor of the family room with Stitch and had a family meeting. We went from a squeak, to having to choose how to manage the rest of his life in just a few days. We had each chosen the same option, some of our reasons were the same, and some different. It was emotional. We had to put Stitch's comfort level and quality of life before any of our own wants because it is completely about doing the best that we possibly can for him.
We decided that Stitch is not a good candidate for chemotherapy. He is terrified of the vet, but loves to ride in the car...he'll figure out that rides only mean getting stuck with needles vs simply going for a ride with mommy. If we say the word "BATH", he will hide for the rest of the day and is visibly upset on the rare occasion that he has an accident.
We've researched A LOT and this is such a difficult and personal decision. We have our own views on how we see things and they may not line up with another person/family. In our hearts,we know that Stitch has been treated like a King every day of his life with us. We would spend every last cent we could get our hands on to save him in a heartbeat if that's what it took, it's not even a second thought. The money is not an issue for us, but we feel the impact it will have on Stitch is too great. Stitch losing his core personality and spending his days afraid is more than we're willing to put him through. It will only prolong what we know is coming and compromise the quality of his time.
As a family unit, we have chosen prednisone therapy for the pain/swelling and immunity boosting supplements, along with a vegetable & meat based diet (which he is not complaining about... :) ). I've Feng Shui'd him and pray every night for the best possible outcome. Most importantly, he gets all the hugs and kisses he could ever want...and then some.
I can't help but feel a little annoyed. Reading on the internet, some sites say that prednisone is the choice for families that can't afford chemo. That's not the case here. If we thought that it was the right choice for Stitch, we would do it in a second. Our choice was driven by what would make Stitch the most happy & comfortable. He is part of our family and it is heartbreaking. We're not ready to say goodbye, but we refuse to make him uncomfortable for a second. I'm sure chemo is right for some families and dogs. It's just not the best choice for Stitch.
Stitch is in relatively good spirits, but the thought of him not feeling well is ripping me apart. Our kids are doing well and I'm proud of how they're handling it so far. It's been a very long time since I saw my husband cry, but neither of us could initially keep it together. I'm a wreck & trying to be strong, but I'm not handling it well at all. I am desperately trying to control my feelings for Stitch's sake, and that of my family. I don't want any of them sad because I'm sad.
This is painful.
I hope his immune system can strengthen to switch back on to conquer this. Much like when he was a puppy recovering from pneumonia, we'll spend our days together and I'll take care of him for as long as he needs me.
This beautiful Corgi has touched my life in a way I never expected.
He is the best friend I have ever had.
STITCH UPDATE - August 13, 2012
Hi Everyone,
First, we would like to thank you all for your wonderful words of support. I'm not sure I can find adequate words of appreciation. Please know they are heartfelt. Hubby (Jim) was touched as well, he has never seen such a positive forum....thank you. :)
I'm trying to focus on Stitch & being happy for him to keep the mood light. :)
I'm not sure what to make of Stitch at the moment, though. Some moments, I look at his breathing and think "OH NO". It's been so humid, I'm having a hard time figuring out if it's the weather or if he's declining rapidly. Then, out of nowhere, he is running out door and barking at me to throw his ball or blasting past me to get to the car to go for a ride. He doesn't seem like he's ready to let an opportunity pass him by. I think that's a good frame of mind right now, so I'm following his lead. :)
I've changed his diet and I notice significant changes in him. He's eating like a champ and not turning any food away...so that's good. He was originally on Chicken Soup for the Dog Lover's Soul, dry & can. Always has been. Early on we were told it was the best thing for him because we thought he had a food allergy. He licks his paws alot..but he's just a nervous little guy. We didn't overfeed him, because we worried about back problems. I never questioned dry/can food until I started researching Lymphosarcoma. So interesting. Currently (since diagnosis) he is eating K-9 Critical Care mixed with organic chicken, turkey or beef. I cook his food & decided not to feed him raw meat because I am a nervous that if he catches a parasite, he won't be able to fight it. He is also on the Critical Care Power Pack at breakfast and dinner. At lunch I mix ES Clear into his meal. No additional carbs. I researched all of these companies myself and I am not affiliated with any of them..I'm kind of a "Super Sleuth" by nature.
Here's what I have noticed right away since we've made the changes:
1. Stitch's coat is SUPER shiny and his colors are very vibrant. The coarseness to his hair is gone...almost immediately. He is soft.... Sooooo soft. Like a teddy bear. It honestly blew my mind. This afternoon my daughter was cuddling him and said, "Mom, he's so soft now". This is the first thing I noticed and he started the food & supplements first, so without being a specialist, I'll attribute it to the change in food. It's funny, when it came, I opened it and said to Jim, "Oh wow, this SMELLS healthy...wonder if he'll go for it". He's been very good about the changes. Not to be gross, but his poop always had a grittiness too. I never questioned it before, but the more I research, the more I'm understanding.
2. His teeth... they're cleaner. I started the ES Clear second. I'm an obsessive "review reader", and one of the reviewers said that his dogs teeth were better....cleaner, less plaque. I would agree, there is a definite difference. His gums look good. Pink & healthy. I was surprised.
3. His eyes are clearer & sparkly.
4. He's less gassy. YAAY!
I also bought Amazapet for breathing, but it's not something that he gets at regular intervals. Still trying it out. I researched everything & cross referenced each ingredient (holistic & prescription) for any interactions. I couldn't find any.
The lymph nodes are down, likely due to the Prednisone.
He's in good spirits, eating well and lovey.
Yesterday he went to his first Gymkhana. The horses didn't faze him at all...he was too intersted in all of the attention he was getting! He's stuck to me like glue right now...and giving me 'the eyes'...time to make him dinner. :)
Thank you for your love and support.
Stitch & Family
STITCH UPDATE - August 22, 2012
Hi Everyone,
Hope you are all well. Things around here are a little lighter in spirit this week. Tomorrow is one month from diagnosis and Stitch is doing pretty well. Much better than we expected at this date. We're full swing into our new routine and he is adapting quite well to all of the changes we've made to accomodate him. He is very engergetic, even though he has moments when I can see breathing is a little tough. Trying to make him comfortable with the breathing, but otherwise he is our normal Stitchy. The weight loss from the initial change in food to eliminate carbs has decreased and he seems to have 'leveled out'. Right now he looks really good. Maybe all of the hugs and kisses are helping! :)
Overall, we're all doing ok. Some moments are tough, but as we move through the process, we're finding joy in the small things. I had to laugh the other night..I think it was Monday...I was grilling dinner and Stitch was sitting by the front door. I thought it was odd. Usually, he's at my heels..especially when I'm in and out to the grill. The only time he sits at the front door is....OOOOH...Wednesday! My parents come over for dinner every Wednesday and I almost always grill dinner (apparently I'm in a rut..time for a new recipe or two!). He was waiting at the door for Grandma and Grandpa! He LOVES to play with my Dad (and vice versa)..today is Wednesday..so I'm sure he'll be waiting at the front door when I fire up the grill!! He's such a little smarty!
He deflated his soccer ball this week....maybe getting out a little frustration & aggression.
Thank you for your love and support!
Stitch & Family
Stitch Update - August 27, 2012
Hi Everyone,
Stitch is doing pretty well! :) Jim had a race at Pocono Raceway this past weekend, so we packed up the family and hit the road. I was a little nervous because I didn't want to wear Stitch out, but he did great! I was quite surprised at the amount of energy he had. The weather was gorgeous and the lack of humidity in the air made it much easier on him. That was a huge relief.
So thankful that we got to have a great weekend together and step out of our new reality for just a little while.
He is so sweet! :)
STITCH UPDATE - September 4, 2012
Hi Everyone,
Stitch had a pretty good weekend! We arranged a photo session for him, to capture a few moments. He did a great job! The photographer was awesome. If you live in CT, message me and I'll be happy to share contact info. Can't wait to see the final portraits!! Currently, Stitch is in good spirits and by our side all day. Very thankful for the time we have with him. Pretty sure he is loving all of the attention!! :)
Thank you all for reading his Blog and for the support.
It really means a lot!
Stitch & Family
STITCH UPDATE - September 24,2012
Hi everyone,
Yesterday was 2 months from diagnosis and Stitch is doing pretty well. He still wants to ride in the car and play with his ball. Some trouble getting up the stairs, but I think he kind of likes that I'm his personal elevator. ;) Breathing is on and off. Some days are good, some days are tougher. Now that things are cooling down, he seems more comfortable. Still eating well and ready for attention at any moment. Usually, Stitch and I can be together for most of the day since he comes to work with me, but I haven't been home as much in the past few weeks. My Dad was scheduled for leg surgery, but during preliminary testing, they found that he needed a cardiac stent. The stent surgery could not be completed as the DR found he needed a triple bipass, ASAP. As it turned out, it was a quadruple bipass. Things got very serious very quickly and I've been at the hospital a lot. Surgery went well and he will be scheduling the leg surgery as soon as the DR's feel he is strong enough. We are so fortunate to have the most amazing team of DR's and hospital staff. It's been busy and Stitch has been alone more than I would like, but Jim and the kids have been great about filling in with caring for him. Every night when I get home, he is at the door wiggling his nub with a smile and runs to the family room to snuggle. He is the most amazing little dog!
STITCH UPDATE - November 1, 2012
Hello everyone,
Stitch is doing well. Things are changing a little here and there. He is still ALL personality, although I can see his body is not always acting like he would like it to. His hind legs are a little weaker and going up stairs is proving difficult. I carry him up the long flights, but going down he has no problem at all. Eating well. Tonight we're trying to reduce his pm dose of prednisone, he's panting a lot. Sam had recommended it a bit ago, so we're giving it a try. We'll see how it goes. I hope it makes him more comfortable. He's sleeping a lot, but when he is awake, he's very lovey. Still loves his 'TV time'...he sits on the ottoman with me in the evening and watches over everyone until Jim clicks the TV off. :)
Enjoying our time together... <3
STITCH UPDATE - THANKSGIVING 2012
Wow! Thanksgiving already! Today I am happy to say that our little Stitch is still here. He made it to today when he gets his little kong filled with turkey...how thrilled I was to be able to give it to him! Today I filled it with turkey & bacon and since his diet has been heavy on the kelp, he was all over it! He was under the table and so noisy, that we all barely got through saying grace without busting up! So incredibly thankful to have our little guy still here and so full of life.
Tomorrow is a big day for us...4 months since diagnosis....he made it!!! I am so overcome with emotion that we were able to get him to his 4 month mark. When we got the diagnosis, everything we read said 4 months was max, likely 3 to 3 1/2 with prednisone treatment. I realize that we are on borrowed time from here, but to know that he is still every bit "Stitch"...and has had only a couple bumps with breathing...makes us certain that we made the right decision for him. I don't know how much time we will have left with him, but tomorrow...we're celebrating!!!
He's an amazing little dog...we are so lucky to have him in our life!!!
Happy Thanksgiving & give your pups a big hug from us!!
STITCH UPDATE - December 31, 2012
Hello everyone hope you are well! Stitch made it to his 5 month mark and we spent Christmas together. Truely a Christmas Miracle. We're headed into the New Year and take one day at a time...he is still happy and eating and getting all of the kisses we can give. He played in the snow a little yesterday and just about knocked me over trying to get out the door to the car for his ride today. When he was diagnosed in July, we felt like our feet were pulled out from under us, it really hit us hard. Sitting here, next to him on New Year's Eve is beyond what we could have ever thought possible. Although we're still facing a rough road ahead, and the road we're leaving behind was really hard, this moment is a blessing...time for more kisses. :)
Happy New Year!
Wishing you peace and good health in 2013.
STITCH UPDATE - JANUARY 28, 2013
Stitch made it past the 6 month mark!! He's had quite a few good weeks and has been eating his bully stick and playing - a little more energy lately. :)
He has had a few bumps in the road too....he took a nasty tumble down the stairs..lost his footing. It was terrible, but he just jumped up as if to say. "whew! I'm ok". He woke the whole house and everyone came running to his aid. Luckily, he seemed ok and since he's with me all day, I kept a close eye on him. No limping or irritation. Thank goodness...
He developed some ulcers in his right eye. I wasn't sure what was going on, so I asked the vet to see him. Turned out to be ulcers, luckily the cancer has not spread to his eyes yet. I was nervous about eye pressure and blindness. Both were ruled out. :)
The night before he was to go back for his eye check-up I was giving him a bath because I had noticed a piece of gum (?) in his coat on his back. All I could think was ..."How in the????" Turned out to be an open sore, about 1" in diameter. Then I wondered if the cancer was presenting in his skin. Since we were to go to the vet in the a.m., I cleaned it out and put some Neosporin on it. At the vet, his eyes were clear...yaay! I asked the vet to check his back..they took him out to shave a little spot. When he came in, he had a few sores and they shaved a spot about 6" x 6"...I was stunned..to say the least. The only thing I could relate it to was the tumble down the steps. He took a course of antibiotics and I had to clean and treat the wound 3 times a day. No problem...keeping an eye on him. He's been looking good...sores have been healing nicely.
Until yesterday. I was rubbing his back & butt and found another small spot - same as before. So I treated it the same way..then I found 2 more on his back this morning. Out of no where...they were not there yesterday when I found the other one..I checked him thoroughly.
Spoke with the vet this a.m. Treating him with anitbiotcs & wound cleaning 3X a day again. Since I research everything I can think of...it was driving me crazy. How do I help him? It looks painful.
I google imaged and a pic came up that look exactly like what we're dealing with under 2 topics:
1. Staph infection
2. Hot Spots
The definition of hot spots is exactly what happens to him. They come on so fast, from out of no where with no warning. But since they're on his back, he's not self inflicting. I wonder if he's picked up an allergy along the way. He's also been on prednisone for 6 months now...it may be predisposing him & he can't fight it on his own.
Has anyone had experience with treating these hot spots &/or making their pup comfy along the way? I would appreciate any suggestions or advice.
He's also had 2 more eye ulcers since the trip to the vet. Treating those as well. They seem to come together - the eye and skin issues.
Through it all..you could never tell. He's playing, eating..acting totally normal.
He really is the best little guy. :)
Enjoying our time together. <3
Spring is just around the corner!! :)
FEBRUARY 25, 2013
We made 7 months from diagnosis!!! Can't believe it....he's so happy & beautiful!!! What a lucky family we are. Stitch has a few hot spots popping up. We're trying to manage them and keep him comfy. So far so good. He's so sweet and still ready to go for a ride and even being really good about taking a "B-A-T-H". (we don't say the word) ;) He's still eating well. We're considering reducing his prenisone again. We're wondering if it is contributing to the hot spots. I read that long term exposure might be problem. Since the vet didn't expect him to live this long, we're now concerned about long term side affects of the prednisone. The intent is to keep him comfortable and happy first and foremost. What a great little guy...I am in complete awe of him!!!
Time for dinner...he's waiting patiently, wiggling that little nub...
:)
Heather
March 28, 2013 - Stitch Update!!! :)
WOW!!! Here we are at 8 months from diagnosis. He is amazing & full of life. We do have some issues to deal with - hot spots, hair loss, eye ulcers, but you would never know he is sick by his disposition. He is handling everything so well! His energy seems to be really good this week and the exterior (visual) health issues don't seem to bother him at all. He is finally starting to get some new hair growth where the first hot spots were. Since he has shaved spots and some hair loss, he looks like a little spotted piglet... The cold weather is finally on its way out (we hope) and he's been able to go outside a little longer.
In July we could never have imagined that he would still be here with us and still so vibrant. He is truely a fighter and such an inspiration. So incredibly thankful.
Happy Spring!!!!
Heather :)
APRIL 24, 2013 - Stitch Update :)
Here we are at 9 months. There was great hope at diagnosis that he would still be here with us, but based on the numbers, it didn't look good. Stitch is doing well. I will post a few pics of him so that anyone reading this blog, that may be dealing with a similar situation might benefit. I desperately searched for information when he was diagnosed and there wasn't much out there that pertained to us. From the front, he looks great. It's not until you see his back that the issues he's been dealing with stand out. The back picture is a little rough, although he does not appear to be in pain. This pic was taken 4-22-13 as was the next. He is acting like himself, playing & running after his ball.
The next pics were taken last night 4-23-13. We have been dealing with the Hot Spots since January. When the sore heals, the skin turns black. I have searched for an explanation online, but haven't found anything that makes sense or explains specifically why it happens. I thought the skin would act like a bruise and return to its normal shade, but it has not yet. His skin also turned black where he lost a significant amount of hair on his backside by his tail, by his 'mohawk'. It's almost his whole backside. In that area the hair literally separated from the skin, without sores. So we just take each occurence for what it is and try to treat it and protect the skin from infection.Now that I understand how the sores act, I can be right on top of them. He lost a lot of hair when the vet initially shaved him for what we thought was an isolated sore. The significant area of black are where the multiple sores popped up. Anywhere that the hair has come away from the skin has turned black.
The little tuft of hair on the right is where the first Hot Spot was. That was about 3 1/2 months ago. The hair is doing pretty well. I'm baffled at why the areas without trauma (pink), that were shaved, have not grown in yet though. Can't make sense of that. It looks pretty bad, but you could never tell they bother him, he just keeps going. :) We reduced his prednisone on March 1st. We have seen a decrease in Hot Spots since then. I hope reducing the prednisone is allowing his immune system to strengthen. We check his Lymph Nodes each day, and so far, they're good. We just take it one day at a time and try to read his body and mood. We have really been so lucky. He's a happy dog.
Jim surprised me with an early birthday gift - a sculpture of Stitch. Beyond adorable. He found an artist online (Kathryn Nicholas www.mypetsculture.com ) and sent her tons of pictures. This picture doesn't do it justice. The details are amazing. I would highly recommend checking out her work on Facebook. :)
Right now, he's happy to be outside and run in the yard, go to work with me and flop down at night for TV time...
and we're just thankful he can. :)
STITCH UPDATE - MAY 10, 2012
BIRTHDAY WEEKEND.....He made it !!!
Sunday (Mother's Day) Stitch will turn 8!
Beyond thrilled that he'll get to see his 8th year. He has so much love to give and is loved beyond words. We did not expect to be celebrating this day when we got his diagnosis in July, but here we are. Thankful just doesn't sum up how appreciative we are that he's still with us. He's a strong little guy!!
Will post some pics.....
:)
BIRTHDAY...BIRTHDAY...BIRTHDAY... :) May 12, 2013
Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes....good day today! Stitch was so happy today. Grandma and Grandpa came over to celebrate Mother's Day and Stitch's birthday
...a few cutie pics!!
Birthday Boy!!
Doggles!! So cute!! :)
What a great day!!!
STITCH UPDATE - May 27, 2013
We made it to 10 months! It's been a rollercoaster this week. Stitch has been doing great...and on Tuesday when I got home from Jury Duty, I was giving him kisses and felt his lymph nodes under his jaw. They are inflamed. This is the first time that we have seen any inflammation since diagnosis. My heart sank. Jim was there too and we decided to up his prednisone to 30 immediately. I'm wrestling if we should jump to 40, but it really affects his breathing. As it was, I gave him the large dose with dinner and it had been so hot during the day, the house was very hot, so by the time Jim got the A/C in and started to cool the house, Stitch was panting a lot. It was a really tough night and he was so uncomfortable. I slept on the sofa to keep an eye on him. It took a long time for his temp to regulate...long night. Since the evening is usually his tough part of the day, I decided to give his large dose in the a.m. That seemed to work much better and he's much more comfortable. This leaves the question, do I give him a large dose in the evening also to get him up to 40? I feel like it would be too much for him. We decided to leave him at 30 for now and see how he does. The goal is to keep him comfortable, and we've had so much more quality time with him than we expected. We don't want to make him uncomfortable, his body has been through so much already.
He's such a ray of sunshine.... :)
STITCH UPDATE - June 12, 2013
Tough couple of weeks. We did eventually increase to 40 mg - Pred. Lymph nodes were swollen - really swollen for a while. They are back down now, but I think we are getting close to the end of Stitch's fight. He really didn't want to eat yesterday. He is still drinking as of right now...I am sitting on the floor in the family room with him. He's resting, but had a tough night last night.
It was time to have another family meeting with the kids and decide where to go from here, since we know we are very likely in the final days. Our kids...at 17 & 15, are able to make decisions about what is best for Stitch and not try to hold on to what's best for them. They amaze me. Again, we are all in agreement to let nature take its course here at home, where he is comfortable. If he shows signs of discomfort, do what it takes to make him comfy...whatever that may be.
We've been so lucky...so, so lucky. He is the most amazing little guy...I hope he knows how very much he's loved. :)
STITCH - June 13, 2013
Our little Stitch lost his fight today. He went peacefully & surrounded by love. He was wiggling his little nub in his last hour and knew we were there with him. I stayed with him around the clock for his last few days and we sat in the yard in the sun together. There was nice breeze blowing and he seemed happy to lay on his blanket with his nose in the grass. He loved being in his yard. We all watched TV together & just put our lives aside to honor his and spend time with him with in his final days. Had we been able to request a peaceful passing, we could not have asked for more in terms of letting him just be himself and not prolonging or suffering. We all had time to say our goodbyes. My parents came over and had time to say theirs too.
There are plenty of tears in saying goodbye. We could not be more grateful to have had this year to say and do all of the things we wanted to share with him...so few get that opportunity. We're so sad that he had to go and we are all going to miss him terribly. Although I feel a great sadness that our time here is over, my heart is filled with gratitude that he got to be part of our family, that we got to care for him, love him and share his days, good and bad. I don't know how he found us or how we found him out of all the pets and families in the world, but we were meant to be together. We meshed perfectly. Our time together is one of the greatest treasures of my life, and I'm sure of Jim & the kids. Stitch was the sweetest soul with a great big bouncy personality wrapped in a little body, he captured our hearts and gave us more happiness and love than we ever could have imagined.
Stitch's time with us has ended, and it was a privilege and an honor to have been part of it. We hope his story continues on, whether with a family that is considering adopting a Corgi, or for the family trying to find some light in the grim hour of diagnosis. We will gladly share Stitch's Story with anyone who is willing to listen or is feeling alone on their journey.
Rest in peace my beautiful boy... you gave, taught and touched us more than you could ever know.
You are the best friend I have ever had...I LOVE YOU.
Kisses :)
In Loving Memory: Stitch's Story - A Corgi's Life :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aenmxjdcSis&feature=player_detai...
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Hi Heather,
Lymphoma is very different from other forms of cancer, it spreads way too fast to do anything. The only thing that shows any promise at this point is stem cell transplant. There are no miracle cure / food out there. You can give him heavy dose of veg / fruit juice to boost his immune system. (no onion / garlic / avocado...etc)
To answer your last question, no, the body cannot repair itself with regular chemo, it only extends his life, not quality of life.
Thank you all..I love all the Corgi pictures..
I have so many questions...
Is there anything else I can do for him?
Is there an option I haven't found yet that anyone has had good luck with?
Can the body repair the defenders so that they're strong enough to defend & fight?
Charlie..thank you! I did buy the ES clear..I am also hoping his body can heal itself with a more natural approach. I specifically notice the reduction in plaque on his teeth...hoping for great results! I hope your CoCo continues to be strong. :) She does sound royal!! :)
I am grasping at straws hoping for the right combination for his body.
I love all the posts' your corgi friends have written! This is an amazing group of people, (and furbabies)! I am glad Stitch is currently feeling better. It sounds like you are doing everything you can, especially letting him know how much you love him! I will remember all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Stitches story touched our hearts.
My wife wanted me to tell you of our story about our little girl 6 year old Corgi “The Grand Duchess CoCo Chanel of Lake Forrest”….or Coco as we call her. We added all the other as she seemed so “Royal”.
We found her over a year ago through a wonderful rescue group in Florida. She was being cast aside from an owner who did not want her because she couldn’t breed. I loved her from the first time I saw her picture and we soon made arrangements to adopt her. She fit our older male Corgi…..Dylan….very well and as long as “she gets her way”, everything is hunky dory.
Shortly after she came to live with us she had a rectal bleeding episode. The Vet discovered a tumor the size of a hen’s egg, which scared us. The Vet removed the tumor and he thought he got it all. He said our options were more exploratory surgery, chemo and drugs. We were heartbroken for her. We didn’t want to break her spirit or slowly watch her fade. We finally opted for a more holistic approach, consisting of diet and something my wife researched and found.
She order this from PetWellbeing.com
NHV ES Clear Cancer Support drops for dogs, and it’s worked like a miracle for CoCo. It’s been about a year and we check her regularly. So far there is no sign of a recurrence and she is going strong. It’s like she’s shot out of a cannon every morning.
We realize that every day we have her is a gift….we want her to enjoy any and all time she is allotted.
We know how you feel about your stitch. Stitch’s situation is different but we heartily recommend these drops.
Good luck to Stitch and his family. Our prayers are with you all.
I love that line on the Daily Corgi...."Life is short, get the biscuits".
Charlie McCulloh
Dylan and CoCo’s Dad
I've always loved this poem...
"I'll lend you for a little time a friend of mine," He said.
For you to love - while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or maybe two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care or him for Me?
He'll bring his smiles to gladden you,
And should this stay be brief
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
that I want you to learn.
I've looked this world over
In search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd
Life's lanes, I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor count the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call to
Take him back again?"
I fancied that I heard then say,
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy friend shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that come
And try to understand."
Written by Edward Guest, modified by me
Oh Heather your story is heartbreaking as are all the others ive read throughout the last few weeks.. I appreciate you sharing with us what a beautiful family you have and how precious youve all love Stitch .
Your absolutily right about so many things they can toch your lives in a way you never expected. and be your best friend. I pray you have many more happy days ahead and as our founder Sam has done make a bunch more memories with your boy...
My gosh i know if i ever have to go through someting so hard ill be here sharing with my fellow corgi friends. Im so glad you have such a devoted husband and that your children love him as you do.. My family thinks im pretty loco most of the time over my two .. A shoulder to lean on is the best! As one other post said , "A burden shared is lighter for all."
Enjoy every moment you have with Stitch and know that he knows you all are the best family a boy could ask for.
Stitch is such a perfect name for a corgi and your little guy sounds like a perfect fit with your family. I am so sorry to hear about Stitch's diagnosis. I think you all made the right decision because it was well thought out and discussed with the best interests of Stitch in mind!
Thank you for sharing your story. I lost our Comet in December 2011. We will be thinking of you and Stitch.
I really loved your post! It is a beautiful story with a very sad ending! I think Stitch has a wonderful family, and I'm sure this is a very hard time for you. I will be thinking of you and saying a prayer.
I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through this... Whenever I read posts like yours it serves as a reminder how short a time we really have with our furbabies, and to cherish that time. Sending corgi prayers your way.
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