Everything happens for a reason...even if it's everything at once...

So to make a long story short my boyfriend in on vacation to the Philippines and he decided it was a good idea to get a girlfriend while he was there thinking I would never find out, but I did and now and moving out. Apparently 5 years means nothing to this jerk! haha Anyways I'm over it and I have until he gets home Wednesday night to move out so I never have to see him again, because he is pretty crazy! I am trying to run away and leave him a note saying you made the choice please dont try to get in contact with me. Sooo... I have a problem, the apartment won't be ready until June 1st so I am going to stay with my friend until then but she can't have dogs. I need to ask my father to watch them until I am settled in, but I have never been away from them for more than 8 hours. I'm more nervous about being away from them than any of this! He lives in Manchester NH and I'm here in Boston (with no car) so there's no way I can see them even if I wanted to. I'm bummed! Oh well I know he will take good care of them and they get along so well with his beagle Reggie so they will have a good time. Sorry for this rant haha I needed to get it all out! :)

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Comment by Stephanie & Lola on May 26, 2009 at 2:07pm
Thank you for all of your comments and kind words!! I am actually going to spend the next couple weeks in New Hampshire with my father until the apartment is ready. I took some much needed time off from work to get my head on straight and I realllly didn't want to leave Lola and Benji for that long anyways. And it seems the apartment won't be finished for 2 weeks anyways and a long time without seeing my babies!
Comment by Julia on May 25, 2009 at 6:33pm
It's too bad you have to leave a relationship without your dog. You need her. However, you will get through it one day at a time. Make sure you leave nothing in your name, such as cable, utilities, joint accounts. If there were any joint accounts, take out half. Make sure you can prove she's your dog, with vet bills, proof of purchase (I know that sounds cold), food receipts. Be strong!

Julia
Comment by Porter & Burleigh on May 25, 2009 at 6:00pm
Hi Steph. Idon't know you, but I live in the same town as your Dad--Your dad will take good care of your babies. I too have been in a similar boat. When I left a bad relationship I did exactly what you're doing. It's scary, but it was one of the best things I ever did. I left but took my dog, my little furry soulmate. She/They will be great support to you in times to come. Keep us all posted!
Comment by Nicola Porter on May 25, 2009 at 5:49pm
I agree with Cam, I know this is a Corgi website but a few of us have been around the block and Cam's advice is good. Say it and mean it.
Comment by Corey & Holly's Mom on May 25, 2009 at 4:56pm
OOh Hon!! I am so sorry!! Keep your head up!! Remember you are a great person and he will be missing out not you!! Let me know if there is anything I can do!!
Comment by Cam on May 25, 2009 at 4:06pm
Just a note about the note. Don't use please. Or thank you. Or anything like that for that matter. This has nothing to do with pleasure, gratification, you're not doing this because it makes you happy and it makes you sound less serious about your decision which may make him more likely to try to hunt you down.
Comment by Boo Buchheit on May 25, 2009 at 3:57pm
Best of everything to you...just keep your babies with you asap. All will be well on your own. crap happens. Know you have the love of your friends and furkids to keep you going.
Comment by Geri & Sidney on May 25, 2009 at 3:03pm
I am so sorry your life has been thrown into upheaval like this! I can tell you are strong and smart, and you are doing the right thing. Your doggies are going to go have a little vacation with grandpa and their uncle Reggie...they'll be just fine. Take care of yourself and keep us posted, OK?
Comment by DR, Nala & Simon on May 25, 2009 at 2:49pm
June 1rsr is less than a week away. I am not sure what you mean with him being "crazy", but if you have to face him for any reason or other, don't do it alone. Have a friend with you. In some weeks or just months, you will realize how lucky you were. It's always a "blessing in disguise". Now it's time to reach some of your personal goals and after you get your babies back, more time with them. Take care of yourself, move forward. When the time is perfect, you will find someone better. Big hugs.
Comment by Nicola Porter on May 25, 2009 at 2:33pm
Good for you, don't let any guy steal your self esteem. Your furbaby sounds like he will be fine with your dad. Take care of yourself.

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