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Comment by Sylvia & Timmy on September 21, 2008 at 11:02pm

Do you have medication for the pain associated with the cancer? That could help ease some of your concerns, also and let you enjoy the time with him more. There are several good pain medications available, tramadol comes to mind, but not the only one.

Comment by Alla on September 21, 2008 at 9:58am

I am so sorry about the change. My thoughts and prayers for you.

Comment by lizabeth lubin on September 21, 2008 at 2:15am

Hi. Im Liz, knew to this site. But I wanted to say that we recently had to make a hard decision regarding Taj, our 6 year old dog. He got cancer and in two weeks it was clear that his quality of life was not what it should have been. It was heart breaking and my family came together and loved Taj till the very end. Taj had a great 6 years filled with love and fun and we miss him alot. But it was his time and it was what we had to do. Im sorry for your grief, but feel it, and love your friend and you will know when it is time.

Comment by Sylvia & Timmy on September 20, 2008 at 11:39pm

Timmy and I will be praying extra hard for you in the coming days. Take note of all the things you've enjoyed with him. Take lots and lots of pictures of him with you and the family. Start a scrapbook, write down his five most favorite things. If he loses interest in most of those, your time is near. Also, consider whether or not he is in pain. Give him all the steak, chicken, etc that he wants. Hopefully, it is just a bad day and he'll feel somewhat better again in the coming days. Don't give up the fight!

The most selfish thing we as owners can do is to let our beloved animals suffer in pain because we can't let them go. I promised Timmy that if a day came when he no longer enjoyed life (the eyes will tell you) I would help him take that trip to the bridge sooner rather than later. I've helped three dogs make the journey and each has been difficult only in the fact that I questioned myself "Was it the right time?". I think what scared me was that I had the power to end a life. I think we're all "uncomfortable" with that responsibility, but as a pet owner we're the only ones that can release them from pain and suffering. When I helped my last German Shepherd to the bridge she was licking an ice cream cone, while I held her head in the crook of my other arm. She left for the bridge doing the thing she loved most and that's how I'll always remember her.

Prayers and warm wishes for Riley and your family.

Sylvia and Timmy

Comment by Kathy and Jillie on September 20, 2008 at 11:18pm

We are new to this website and I just read your blog. I am so sorry that Riley is so sick, we will keep him and your family in our thoughts and prayers. I feel your pain and know exactly what you are going through. We lost two dogs in less than a year, it is definitely a very painful time, we will pray for the best. Please keep us posted.

Comment by Sam & Maximus on September 20, 2008 at 10:27pm

So sorry about your pain. We lost our great little Corgi mix last year suddenly. He was only 6 1/2. Woke up one morning not feeling well and passed that evening, autoimune disorder. I couldn't imagine our family with out him. I have a little photo album on the shelf that I can pull out when I'm missing him. Reminds me of all the wonderful things about my little Ace. We love our new Corgi, Max, but will always have wonderful memories of Ace too. I will keep Riley and your family in my prayers through this difficult time.

Comment by Natalie, Lance &Tucker on September 20, 2008 at 9:32pm

It must be so hard to see Riley going through such hard times. Our family pet that I grew up with went to the Rainbow Bridge about 6 years ago, german shepard lab mix, he had a hard time getting up and could barely walk anymore after awhile we just knew that it was just too hard for him to deal with the pain anymore. It was very hard and we miss him dearly, he was a great dog. Go with what your heart tells you, I am sure you will make the right decision when it comes time. Praying for you in this diffucult time.

Comment by Geri & Sidney on September 20, 2008 at 9:16pm

My heart goes out to you and Riley. I loved your list of good memories; it made me smile through my tears. I know I will be going through the same thing with Bruce before too long, yet reading this will help me to cherish every day with him. I hope Riley feels better very soon and makes you laugh again.

Comment by Corey & Holly's Mom on September 20, 2008 at 7:51pm

I am so sorry to hear about Riley. This past May we lost the first Corgi in my family named Kayla. She was 16 years old.She was the heart of my family. My thoughts, wishes and prayers are with you and Riley. It is so hard to make this decision for your best friend in the whole world. Love him, kiss him and enjoy every moment!

Comment by Butter on September 20, 2008 at 7:22pm

So sad to hear what you are all going through. I am praying right now for wisdom, peace and strength for you and healing and peace for Riley (whether it is now or in eternity).

I had to make the decision to part with our family pet who was very sick 20 years ago and I'll never forget him (a sweet little black pug). I choose to hold him as it happened and for me, I was glad I was there because I saw the peace he had. This is not for everyone, though. It is an individual decision.

I pray that God gives you strength, knowledge and understanding in your decision making and takes Riley's suffering away. Joy

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