Some thoughts about my boys.... from the TRUE animal lover

So my boy is losing his baby teeth. This is new to me as I never found any of my first corgi, Pooh's teeth. I have found three. His canine's and another one. The first one I found was on the pillow next to my face when I woke up. lol I told him if he wants the tooth fairy to bring him a cookie, he has to put it under his pillow. lol He's getting bigger day by day and although I loved him when he was little because of the out of control cuteness, I love him more everyday because he is getting more character. He is forming himself and learning that you have to be a smart ass to survive around here and he does quite well. lol I did just read a blog by someone who has still been grieving over the loss of his corgi. Got me to thinking about Pooh. I miss him so much it hurts sometimes but it gets better with the days. I hear some people say that a dog isn't a kid. Well, obviously. But ya know what I think? I think if you want the dog to be your kid then it is. I do not have children but Pooh was as close as it came to me. A child depends on the parent to teach them things, so does a dog. A child depends on a parent to teach them how to use the potty, so does a dog. A child needs a parent to take them to the doctor when they are sick, so does a dog. When I lost Pooh, I lost my mind. I'm not kidding. I'm a very non-emotional type of woman who does not cry in front of people, does not show sadness and when I lost Pooh, I broke down in front of a lot of people who never knew I had that side. Pooh was MY kid. he may not have been human but who is anyone to say he wasn't my baby? Does anyone know what I mean? I had so many people say I over-reacted, say that I was being dramatic, that it wasn't THAT big of a deal. Well, ya know what I said to them? Go to hell. Most people do not truly know what it is like to truly love an animal. My life would be so boring without one. The longest I had ever gone in my life without an animal was 2 months before Pooh. After I lost him, it was almost 10 before I could suck it up and decide it was time. It was hard at first because Copper did a lot that Pooh did but I learned to love him, not the same but in a way that was for him. Now, some people who love their animals might still think I was crazy but ya know what? I took Pooh with me EVERYWHERE! He stayed the night with me when I went somewhere, he went in the car with me everywhere. Everyone knew and loved him. When I moved out into my own place, there was no doubt he was coming with me and he did and he loved it. I would threaten to fight people over him. People that would come to my house and say mean things about him being ugly or fat ( which he was neither) or getting him drunk when I was at work. That ended badly for the person who did it. For the longest time, I felt empty, like something was missing, like I would never be happy like that again. He truly was my life for a long time. I dunno. Just got me thinking. This is to anyone who has ever been laughed at for loving, spoiling, crying, being obsessed over or just talking about their dog. I talked about Pooh all the time. I remember one day at work this woman was talking about the funny things her daughter did. I start sharing things about Pooh. So, to me, Yeah, he was my kid. I would love to hear people's thoughts or venting on this one. If you have anything negative to say about anything I said, please refrain. This is for the good times and the dogs and people who have felt the stupidity of non-animal people.

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Comment by Ashley and Copper on February 19, 2010 at 11:59pm
I just really wanted to say thanks. It is so good and relieving to know that there are other people out there like me. My boyfriend loves Copper but he didn't grow up around animals like I did so he doesn't quite understand why I am the way I am. He's honestly jealous of Copper, I swear. Thanks for everyone's input!
Comment by christy fry on February 19, 2010 at 8:48pm
My pups are my little fur-baby's also and I couldn't imagine not having them in my life. I took a 410k loan to help my departed Shuff's get through a life threatening bout of pancreintitus even though I knew he might not make it through the treatment and then spent an ungodly amount on his special food for the rest of his life. I learned canine masssage and heat therapy techniques when he couldn't have painkillers for his arthritis and made extra time each morning so I could apply them and he could have a pain free morning and each night to help sooth him to sleep. He taugth me compassion and gave me the strength to let go when he needed me to.
Comment by Bev Levy on February 19, 2010 at 6:04pm
As a parent and a grand parent, I can say that my love for my dogs and cats is different but I can not say it is not as important! I say your feelings are quite valid even though you did not need to hear that from me. As I tell my own kids (now adults) they (dogs and cats) will not grow up and leave me! My children are supposed to do that but my dogs and cats won't! That makes a special place for them. Any animal lover gets that
Comment by Jane Christensen on February 19, 2010 at 6:03pm
My niece and I were talking about this last night! as we both have a very strong passion for animals and sometimes people don't understand even the lengths we would go through to help/save an animal! I have special bonds with my animals especially Wynn but I care about all animals. I have grown children and although I spend as much time with them as I can they have their own lives and I have mine! I know many people who's animals are their life and I can't imagine my life without any! I am so glad you found Copper!

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