(I guess I'm just on a discussion kick today. . .) But anyways, I have a cardi, and I know that some of you have both cardis and pems - do you see a real difference in the way that they play and act?? I've read all the descriptions online and in books, but want to know "hands on, errrr. . .paws on!!" My cardi is still a pup, but hardly scared of anything, never calms down, and loves EVERYONE!! He must be with me constantly, and if I am ignoring him, he causes trouble - i.e. grabbing things off the table and showing me them, then RUNNING!! To me, that sounds more like a pem. . . I got a cardi because they were more "laid back." HA!