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Permalink Reply by Anna Morelli on March 17, 2015 at 7:24pm

Not knowing anything about your living situation, your father, the puppy, or the breeder your question is hard to answer.  There are too many variables here.  If you have a good, experienced breeder, I would discuss the situation with the breeder.  They will know the right questions to ask you and have the best interest of the puppy at heart. 

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Permalink Reply by Taylor Moore on March 17, 2015 at 7:33pm

Thank you for your response, Anna. I've asked my breeder if she'd be willing to hold onto him for another two months and if that's the best option, but I haven't received any feedback yet and I'd like to have a second opinion.

Assuming my father can take proper care and do his research (he'll be taking him to training during my absence), will it be a problem if I come back two months later and take over as the leader? What factors do I need to be aware of?

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Permalink Reply by Holly on March 17, 2015 at 8:34pm

If you do end up having your Dad watch him can he watch him at your house or can they visit there while you are away so he sees it as a safe place and gets used to the smells and such of his new home until you get back? If he eats some meals there and takes some walks there I would imagine it would be easier for him to adjust when you return to "his" new home. Also, can you get him a blanket, toy or stuffed animal that you and he play with that he can use for security while you are away? Not sure if that is the best advice, but it worked to help my dog adjust after adoption. Sorry you have to go away now! I'm sure it will be behind you sooner than you realize, but still hard.

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Permalink Reply by Anna Morelli on March 17, 2015 at 11:34pm

If the pup is properly handled and socialized during those two months, you will have a good basis from  which to start the new adjustment.  Plan to take a few days off when you bring the pup home to help him settle in the new environment and adjust to your new routine.  Keep in mind that those two months are crucial in the socialization area.  A young pup is quite demanding of time and patience and will need gentle, consistent guidance.  Only you can tell if your father is right for the job.  I recommend Jack Volhard and Melissa Bartlett's book " What all good dogs should know, the sensible way to train" The book is short, funny, but very good.  best wishes.

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Permalink Reply by Jane Christensen on March 18, 2015 at 12:20pm

Has your Dad had dogs from pups and trained them? Can he follow what you are asking him to do? Can he bring the pup to your home for an occasional visit ? I would also buy some fleece blankets and cut into 18" squares (after washing) and send one to wherever your pup is every couple weeks after you have slept with the square so there's lots of good "you smells"  on the blanket:) I would also send this in an airtight zip-lock so the smells stay in the square. I would also have some toys go to wherever he stays:) Also a collar!

If your breeder will have the pup in her house then I think this would be good...I have done this in the past and it has worked well. Plus you should have a house trained pup when you do get home.

Do what feels "right" to you!

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Permalink Reply by Taylor Moore on March 18, 2015 at 1:27pm

Thank you for all of your feedback, it's been extremely helpful. I cannot guarantee how well my Father will take care of him, so I will request to wait for another litter when I return from my work trip. It breaks my heart as I fell in love with the little guy, but I need to ensure he'll be taken good care of. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my concerns.

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