The topic of discussion is "dominance". I have had dogs for most of my life. My first corgi (Torgi) was definitely that, dominant, but because I was so young (13), and had had no training on the subject, just assumed that this was who he was and that was that. Then a lab/border collie, and then consecutively two golden retrievers, one whom I still have, but all definitely NOT dominant! And now I have Tilly, the dominant wanna be tri-colored Pembroke Welsh Corgi! What a great dog! BUT....I've had to learn a completely new language...how to deal with a dog with a bit of a temper, has her mind made up about who she is, what she does and does not like and how she can wrap herself around us and get away with a lot of things!. Fortunately, I have a stronger will than Tilly does, and I've been reading, watching videos, talking to people at the dog park and I have learned a great deal just figuring things out for myself. I've seen a vast difference in her behaviour..thank goodness! Last week I took her to the vet because when she was touched in areas on her sides and back she would growl and snap at us. This had been going on for a month or so. Last week, when I was towel drying her after a bath she snapped at me several times. I put my hand down her spine to see where it "hurt". She snapped at me again when I got to a certain point. I took her to the vet, who assessed the back situation and came to the conclusion that it is a behavioral problem. He said that in the wild the dominant or parent dog will put his head on top of the other dog declaring his dominance, or will put his paw on their backs. Aha! But what if in our case, Tilly is a wanna be dominant dog? She's not going to like us for that and will therefore snap at us to let us know how she feels. When I got home I told my husband, so that we are both on the same page about this. But I still didn't know how to properly deal with the situation, until I talked with my friend Wendy,next door to us. She said that dogs need to know who the boss is. Words don't work, but actions do. In any given situation, I must quickly reach down and pin Tilly to the ground until she stops squirming, snapping and to wait until she is calm. Good thing she's so low to the ground! We tried this technique for about a week, and now she doesn't get mad at us. I can pat her wherever I want to without the wrath of Tilly! Such relief! But the one prevailing problem is that I couldn't take her for walks in our neighbourhood because every car that would pass by she would go absolutely crazy, barking in a frenzy, and once, escaped from my hand and flew down the road after the car, leash trailing behind. Be still my beating heart!!
I think some dog owners throw around the word "dominant or alpha dog" without actually knowing what the word means in real life. Wendy explained it to me last week. She said, "Dominant is when the dog thinks she needs to be the parent in any given situation. She feels that she needs to protect me from perceived or scary things, so she barks to keep the "danger" away from me." I did not know this. There are other ways of explaining this for different situations that our dog will face. We can tell our dogs in no uncertain terms that it is not necessary to be alpha dog, because I, your owner, am the alpha dog. Therefore, whatever I need to do to make you understand where you stand in this family, is where you will stand! After learning all of this great information, I suddenly realized that I could use this technique with Tilly and the car situation. A few days ago, I took her out and we walked on the street. Every time she reacted, I pinned her down to the ground and told her "NO" and "Leave it" in no uncertain terms. It took us 7 pin downs. Yesterday we walked in the neighbourhood, with cars going by. I even took her to one of the busier streets. Magic! I was amazed at the different dog that I had. I knew that she was nervous, but only once wanted to give chase, but after that, nothing. You can also apply this technique to bicycle chasing, jogger chasing, snapping at a dog that was in the household first or any behaviour that you deem to be inappropriate. If by writing this, I can help one person with their stubborn dog, it will be worth it!! If you have a problem with your dog, please don't give up. There is an answer somewhere out there.
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I agree that you are doing a great job trying to understand your little dog. I always found the pinning down theory hard to fathom but I am sure it works in some ways, but it is a double-edged sword I think. Just as children behave better with the most aversive, even abusive response, a dog will stop doing some things to avoid something they really hate or fear, but it is much more affective and easier on the dog AND the owner, to reward good behaviors than punish negative ones. The behavior you describe, snapping when touched may have a variety of reasons, but my fear is that Tilly will stop snapping at you, but be aggressive with any number of others unless you are with her and she is restrained. It does sound like she is a great dog and she is probably eager to please. Since you are willing to learn about her and be patient with her I am sure she will keep improving. My dog had some fear aggression when I first adopted her and she snapped when touched on her back as well. I just turned my back on her silently when that happened, then touched her regularly and gently throughout the day while saying "good," and gave her an immediate treat anytime she allowed me to touch her without reacting.
I actually touched her very gently with my cane at first, then graduated to my hand. Now I can remove food from her mouth if necessary and touch her anywhere, anytime, but that is because we gently built respect and trust. If I handled her roughly she would behave better, but I need her to trust me and listen to me. I am sure Tilly will turn around just as quickly. I am no genius or dog whisperer. I did get some great advice from people here, such as Anna, and mostly I just learned to read my dog better and she learned to understand me as her protector and the head of household. The easiest way for me to help her learn is to make her do something every time I feed her, when she is most motivated. If ask her to sit and she doesn't I just quietly remove her bowl. If I put it down and ask her to "sit" to "leave it" or "wait" and she doesn't I just remove it quietly and try again in a few minutes. She learned very quickly and got her food and lots of praise when she complied. She loves to learn new tricks now and she looks to me for reassurance and approval so I very rarely have to correct her. I'm sure you will also have fun bonding with Tilly. Corgis are independent, but eager to please.
Karen, please know that in no way are my comments intended as criticism of you. You did the right thing by taking the dog to the Vet and seeking suggestions form people with more experience than yourself. When the tactics you employed worked, your desire was to share them and help others, this is indeed what we have in common on this site, the desire to help both the dogs and the people. This is also why we are advising against the technique.
When I was in school and taking Math tests, sometimes it happened that I made two mistakes in my calculations and was lucky enough that they compensated each other, allowing me to end up with the correct answer! I was always sorely disappointed when my teacher refused me the passing grade on the test.... Your results are satisfying, but still not advisable.
Most certainly one cannot allow growling, snapping or any other out of control behavior and I am not personally in favor of the overuse of treats either. However, the pinning down technique, which was once the rage among trainers, has long been abandoned by most, although there are still some trainers that advocate harsh treatment.
We use to take kids behind the woodshed and give them a good whipping to teach them manners, that worked, but today we have better ways. That does not mean we can't get good results.
Check out utube videos of Kikopup and Zak George. They discuss the dominance theory in their training videos and offer less invasive methods to deal with unwanted behaviors. There is a lot of scientific evidence supporting more reward based training. Most of us, myself included, learned to train using dominance methods but changed due to better information. You run the risk of getting into a battle with your dog that will end badly. Just check it out.
Anna, the vet suggested that he might be wrong, but that I should try the behaviour approach first. Since my husband and I have started to let Tilly know that the growling and snapping is not acceptable, she has stopped that particular behaviour, so that I know it is not a physical problem. I can touch her anywhere, any time and she doesn't react like she used to.
I know we all have our opinions about what works and what doesn't work and what we should and shouldn't do. But I was at my serious wits end with Tilly and I did consult a dog trainer, who told me to keep doing what I was doing. I was telling her to "watch me" and giving her treats just as the car passed by. But it wasn't making a difference at all. But when I tried the pin down, I had a changed dog. Every corgi is different, just like you don't treat every child the same, because they are all different too, not to mention family dynamics. One takes a risk when one posts on a site such as this. I appreciate all the comments and information, but I have to go with what works for Tilly. She is a much calmer and happier dog, much the same as setting boundaries for our children. Tilly is not an aggressive dog and in fact is quite submissive most of the time. Tilly is a wonderful dog!
The word dominance is one of the most misunderstood among dog owners and it is often used to explain aggression, which is a mistake. Dominance really means "has leadership qualities". The ones with leadership qualities would rise within the pack, are usually smart and not prone to fighting, simply because they are rarely challenged, know their place and know how to assert themselves by their sheer presence. You see this in wild wolf packs. In dogs, animals that are dominant can become dominant aggressive if not properly raised and trained, or if they have genetically bad temperament. A submissive dog ( one who is a natural follower, rather than a natural leader ) can also be aggressive. These are the fear biters, often unpredictable. Same causes as the dominant aggressive dogs, either improperly raised and trained, or genetically of poor temperament.
The methods advised in this post may work in the short term, but can backfire bigtime with anyone who the dog perceives as weaker ( usually an unsuspecting stranger or a child ) and often the owner will end up bitten at some point as well. Crude and abusive methods do work in the short term, as Beth pointed out in her example, but there are better ways of handling smart dogs, just as you have your work cut out when you have a smart kid....
If instead you have a dog who is temperamentally aggressive because of poor temperament ( an inherited trait ) then that's a whole other kettle of fish and not the subject of this post. That would require the help of a competent professional.
Your last sentence is spot on. If dominance is all you are dealing with, you've made some progress, now you can look into better avenues that can stabilize the relationship, elicit understanding and cooperation and elicit respect as compared to fear.
As far as the dog growling and biting when originally touched on the back, I would not rule out that the dog was in some kind of pain, or fear because of past pain. I know you consulted the Vet, but the behavioral explanation the Vet gave you does not suffice in explaining the dog's reaction and your pinning her to the ground can actually aggravate or cause physical harm, although the dog is learning not to react. Best wishes.
I agree with Beth!!!!!!!
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