Hello everyone! This is my first post here, I've been reading for about a month. We stumbled into a corgi needing a home this past weekend and couldn't be happier with Beckham. His Dad was moving and couldn't take him and we were a good match so we got to take him home. He's a 4 year old, intact (soon to be taken care of), housetrained, indoor dog. Most everything is going great. He settled right in and shadows me everywhere. He likes the family and doesn't seem to distressed at the new home. Today he seems sadder than he did prior days. I think it may have sunk in that Dad isn't coming back to get him.
I said most things are going well, well here's the rub. I'm having trouble understanding him during playtime. He didn't come with any toys and we bought him several. He destroyed many of them within minutes. Considering how much his teeth improved with his first round of chewing, I'm guessing he hasn't had toys in a while. He loves to have us throw the toy and he doesn't want to give it up when he brings it back. He likes to drop it, wait for you to reach for it, then snatch it away. Pretty normal, I've had other dogs do this. His voice during this exchange is what freaks me out. He is very talkative and I've figured out a lot of his meanings, but this toy thing sounds aggressive and I don't know how to read him. He brings the toy back and either wants me to toss it again or tug with him but when I reach for it, his barking changes tone to an aggressive bark and some growling and the lip snarls a little. But then if I don't engage him, he acts very hurt. I'm working on drop it and he's taking to it slowly. But in the meantime, any insight on this "play with me but don't touch my toy" behavior? I don't want to act fearful of him, but I already have two blood blisters on my finger where I got nipped in a tug of war game. Not his fault and the only thing that happened was that I left the game but I'm not eager to make it a daily thing. Would this fall under toy guarding? Or is this just normal corgi play talk and I need to get over myself? I have had a corgi in the past, but she didn't have a lot of the corgi behaviors so a lot of this is new to me. Thanks y'all!
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Snarling and curling of the lip are not play, but warnings. I would never play tug with this dog, it brings out dominance. I would also forgo interactive play until he has settled more into your house and has learned that you are the one he respects, loves and listens to. Teach him interactive behaviors that enhance his doing what you ask and then receiving praise for that and the occasional treat. He may have been played with in a rough manner by his previous owner. Often guys love to "roughhouse" with dogs and this makes them indeed rough and encourages dominant behavior. Make your aim to turn him into a gentleman and eliminate toys he seems ot become over-possessive of. He may indeed go through some grieving over the loss of his owner. Dogs, like people, are individuals and you can only surmise what he perceives, thinks and feels. Love and structure in his new life will help him make the adjustment quicker, as he learn what to expect when and that it's all good.
I'm glad you gave him his new home and family.
I would add to what Anna said with a suggestion: When he brings the toy and drops it add the sit command and give him a treat when he sits. My previous corgi, Sparty, was one of those very bossy corgis and often needed a reminder that he did not get to pick games. So play only when you initiate and add a command so he becomes clear that you are in charge. He may calm down quite a lot after a few weeks but meanwhile work on making things fun for him but check out "Nothing in Life is Free" for suggestions. Obedience classes would also be a great idea.
I'm laughing as I read your post because this sounds like an ordinary day at my house. Beckham might always destroy his toys in minutes. My Ellie does. I've learned which material types are sturdiest, and that I can never buy her the same toy twice. Once she knows how to destroy a toy, she remembers. Even antlers, which are supposed to last for months, have a very short life in our house. Corgis love to dismantle everything.
Ellie also does the "bring it back, but not all the way" thing you've described. I think part of the playtime fun for her is seeing me enjoy myself. Since she got to chase the toy, now I get to chase the toy. It's sweet. Corgis aren't retrievers, so don't hold out hope for games of fetch. Ellie likes the halfway-fetch game, tug-o-war, tag, and wrestling. She snaps at my fingers, growls, and curls her lip at me. But only after she "play bows". (It's the bow where they stretch out with their butts in the air, sometimes tails wagging.) Does Beckham do that for you? If he does, then it's just a game to him and he's not being aggressive.
Ellie guards her toys and food, but I've never seen a reason to correct that behavior since she's polite about it. She'll swap toys and she'll let me take treats away (with complaints) if I need to. But if Beckham is aggressively guarding, then that's another story. Can I ask a follow-up? What qualities make the bark aggressive? Is it just loud? Corgis have surprisingly big voices for short dogs. Ellie's aggressive bark is loud, fast, and snarling, plus with aggressive body language.
I don't have much to add, except Noodles growls and barks loudly when playing. If people want to play tug-o-war with him, I always let them know that he will growl the whole time, but he is having fun. His little nub is shaking the whole entire time. He also really enjoys it when you give a little growl and he will come up, nub shaking & give you kisses. To him, it is just a game. Also, he is definitely not a retriever. When you throw the toy, part of the game is only bringing it back part way and for me to try and take it from him. He is so funny because he will get low with his bunny butt up in the air and wait for you to grab it and then pull it away. If you don't grab it in time, he comes closer to you the next time around and continues doing that until you grab it. He cracks me up! Since this always makes me laugh, he likes to come over to me and starts kissing my face. If he drops a toy and I go to grab it, he will also try for it as well, but I know he doesn't want to get it because he approaches with his mouth closed. I just get his nose in my hand. Silly guy and I can't imagine my life without him.
Linus growls when we play tug o war and he's bitten my fingers a few times. It's not intentional, he just takes that game very seriously for some reason. If he wasn't my dog, I'd be concerned by his behavior when he "plays". Maybe limit the tug o war until he's more settled and you can figure out what's "normal" or "aggressive" for him?
Katie does the half fetch and then will play tug when I go to take it. Max loves to fetch and is most willing to give it back but if you don't throw it again fast enough he will bark. I've had fingers nipped but that simply cause my fingers got in the way.
If you hear a corgi bark behind a closed door you would have no idea that it is a dog with 6 inch legs. They may be short but they are full sized dogs with a bark to match.
There are good ideas to help him adjust and to learn that you are at the top of the pecking order. He will test you..he needs to find out if you are the boss or if he needs to be in charge to make sure things are going correctly.
As others have written, some dogs are quite vocal in play and can even growl, with no intent to harm My Miniature Dachshund does this, especially when shaking the rope toy, or when playing tug of war with our Corgi (who is not vocal in play). We taught her "give" and she will immediately drop the rope toy when we tell her that. She is a dominant dog, but not aggressive. We do not play tug with her, just throw the toy. Dominant dogs do have the potential to become dominant aggressive if mishandled. One needs to be well in tune with what is going on to make sure there is no animosity in it. If you misjudge your dog, you or someone else (like a child) will pay the price and the blame will go to the dog. Better to keep things calmer, especially with a newly acquired adult dog who is currently not neutered. Keep in mind also that it can take a couple of months for the neutering's beneficial behavioral effects to start showing up, another reason to keep things more low key and encourage gentleness in the new home. You are setting new patterns and he can more easily learn them if you are consistent from the very beginning.
Instead of reaching out to grab the toy, I would try walking forward and using your body to block/move him away from it. Once you're standing over it/in front of it and he's a bit of a distance away, then reach down to pick it up. The idea is just to "claim" the toy before you grab it.
People think Wynn is growling at them when he is really just "talking". The lip curling varies in warnings at my house. Livvy means it and Sage picked it up from her but never means it. None of mine are aggressive but can be very loud. Livvy knows to drop it or she won't get the attention or the toy. I would just walk away because my belief is that they have trained you to do what they want.
I do agree with much of what Anna says and would agree to hold off on playing tug. I will respectfully disagree about tug games bringing out dominance; agility trainers everywhere (even novices) tug with their dogs to increase drive, and in my extended family of mostly experienced dog owners we have played tug with dogs of all sort, dominant and submissive, for generations and never had a problem. You must teach him to control himself in the game.
My Jack is quite dominant and it's hard to even get him to tug (I used the game to teach "leave it" when he was a pup, for one thing, and for another he would rather me throw the toy than tug it). My Maddie is super-submissive and holds on to the toy for dear life; you could pick her up by it if you were so inclined (not that I would).
When dogs "play" tug with each other, they will self-handicap to keep the game alive. When dogs tug FOR REAL with other dogs, the more dominant dog gets what he wants. The definition of dominance in social animals is who has priority access to resources they want. But playing is not the same as competition, and dogs know it as well as people do.
Once you get used to him, he relaxes and learns to let things go when you ask, you should be able to resume tugging with him. I might make an exception with a dog with serious resource guarding issues, but otherwise dogs like tug and it's a nice indoor way to burn off energy without wrecking your house.
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